Prepare/Enrich your marriage

Relationships thrive when there is understanding and commitment. We at The Sacred Vows, provide the insights to help you build stronger marriages.

TheSacredVows is a Pre-Marital counseling service which believes love to be a Sacred gift - and marriage a Divine sanctuary.


Whether you're engaged or recently married or looking at enriching your marriage, we've got something for every couple.


Most people marry thinking they will live happily ever after! Sadly 50% marriages end up in either dysfunctional marriage or divorce. Learn relationship skills. Make your spouse your lifelong best friend.

Shaadi , vivaah or lagna, we at TheSacredVows use PREPARE/ENRICH program to help you to make your mangal pheras successful and live happily ever after.

PREPARE/ENRICH is a customized couple assessment completed online that identifies a couple's strength and growth areas.

It is one of the most widely used programs for premarital counseling and premarital education. But Customized versions of the inventory are available to be used for marriage counseling, marriage enrichment, and couples considering engagement or arranged marriage.

Based on a couple's assessment results, a trained facilitator provides feedback sessions in which the facilitator helps the couple discuss and understand their results as they are taught proven relationship skills.

  • How many people have taken the PREPARE/ENRICH Program?

Over 3 million couples have taken the PREPARE/ENRICH Program since it began in 1980.

  • What are the major goals of the PREPARE/ENRICH Program?

There are several goals of the PREPARE/ENRICH Program. In order to achieve these goals there are exercises designed to help couples improve their relationship skills. The program helps couples:

  • Explore strength and growth areas

  • Strengthen communication skills

  • Identify and manage major stressors

  • Resolve conflict using the Ten Step Model

  • Develop a more balanced relationship

  • Explore family of origin issues

  • Discuss financial planning and budgeting

  • Establish personal, couple and family goals

  • Understand and appreciate personality differences

  • What relationship areas are assessed by the Inventories?

12 Relationship Scales — communication, conflict resolution, roles, sexuality, finances, spiritual beliefs and more
5 SCOPE Personality Scales
4 Couple and Family Scales — based on the circumplex model
4 Relationship Dynamic Scales
30 Customized Scales

Is the PREPARE/ENRICH Program valid & reliable?

An important strength of the PREPARE/ENRICH Inventories is their strong psychometric properties. High levels of reliability and validity have been found for each instrument, making them valuable tools for research as well as clinical use.

Norms based on over 500,000 couples.

High Levels of Validity and Reliability:

PREPARE has validity in that it discriminates premarital couples that get divorced from those that are happily married with about 85% accuracy. 


Over 3 million couples WORLDWIDE have taken a PREPARE/ENRICH inventory and worked through their results under the guidance of trained facilitators.

How to get started

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Pay Rs 10,000 to signup for the program and send us email id's of both the partners.We will send you a link through which you can fill the assessment online and submit to us.Your Report will be generated and then discussed with both of you.

Help Yourself! Prepare before taking your saptapadi, saat pheras - the sevensteps to marital life.
The var-vadhu both have to honestly answer the couple assessment completed online that identifies a couple's strength and growth areas. 
Register for the program, or schedule your consultation for private premarital counseling through our website,email or by calling +919967633111.

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Gift your loved ones! Give them something that will last forever.Things perish but thoughts that enrich last for ever.For just Rs 10,000/- you are investing in your loved one's healthy and fulfilling relationship.

TheSacredVows is here to make your Marriage extra special. Contact me today and commit to make your relationship  fulfilling and successful.

About Me

TheSacredVows was born in 2012 out of a passion for helping couples. My Guru ,Pujya Swami Dayanada Saraswatiji inspired me to teach couples about the sacredness of marriages.I am a practicing Radiologist running a successful nursing home in Mumbai.Happily married for more than twenty years with two children.Looking at failing marriages, with issues like non-consummated marriages etc I felt the growing need for premarital counseling.I am a qualified psychological counselor who practices premaritial counseling exclusively.


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Register for the program, or schedule your consultation for private premarital counseling through our website,email ( or by calling +919967633111


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TheSacredVows is here to make your Marriage extra special. Contact me today to make your loved one's relationship fulfilling and successful.

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With TheSacredVows, your marriage is sure to be successful. I use my professional background, creativity and years of experience to make your relationship stronger.

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Motifs of Modern Marriages - An Indian View

Modern Marriages have many features, nuances, shades, themes and colours. These repetitive patterns in marriages are what I call Motifs o
Outcome is that you want more, and you are not content with what you have.
You complain that you don't have what other people have.
You use people and care for things rather than care for people and use things.Western Consumer culture in modern marriage is a repeated motif.Use and throw. Chase your own pleasure without thought and care for the opposite partner.Thus consumerism has become a common motif of indian marriage. 7.Blame Game.(Emotional Atyaachaar) It’s not my fault! He or she is responsible for this mess!Blaming the partner or one's parents or one’s past or anything except oneself is a repeated motif seen in many married couples.Woh toh aise he hai!Mera fault nahin hai! 8. Love hai toh sab kuch hai! A lot of marriages, especially in the very beginning of the relationship, start with this motif.If we love each other then we will make it.Our marriage will be successful simply because we love each other.This motif even though common, has many pitfalls.Marriage based on emotional tugs rather than balanced reason is likely to sink.The “Love” felt by young couples may actually be something else, for instance, a simple sexual infatuation, an escape from parents, a neurotic coupling (as in "Daddy will protect you, my baby"-syndrome) or one partner dominating the other in a sado-masochistic relationship. The phrase ‘ I Love You” has such a strong connotation in our culture that it can be an excuse for anything in a relationship, even abuse and selfishness. Out of the thirty or so pre-marriage predictors of marriage satisfaction as discovered by researchers,romantic love is only one. 9. Ill-logical emotions.A fulfilling and meaningful marriage has partners who share a wide range of emotional experiences with each other.If a husband and wife routinely share anger,joy,grief,boredom,sadness and humor,their marriage will be intimate and grow stronger.When one spouse decides to emotionally withdraw or has never learned to share emotionally, marital strife often ensues.This emotional constrictiveness is a common pattern and motif in marriages. It is important to note that all desires are not necessarily wrong or the root of conflict. It's when a desire becomes a demand that trouble begins. The more you make choices in order to get your own way, the more likely you are to have conflict with others. Every marriage has its motifs, they need not be bad.The thing to remember is not fall a prey to repetitive negative patterns. #weddingtrends #premaritalcounseling #tipsformarriage +919321672644

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The Sacredvows is a ONLINE customized couple assessment program that identifies a couple's strength and growth areas.It helps you better your marriage

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